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Your free Virgo love tarot reading for May 2023 summary:

Oracle: Crossing the threshold | Energies: hopelessness and exhaustion

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Oracle | Virgo tarot 

Spirit has been testing you to take that leap of faith and go to the other side. You seem to be staying within your comfort zone and keeping everything to yourself. The universe wants to bring you somewhere sacred, dear Virgo, but it seems like you refuse to take action.

The Initiation requires you to cross the threshold from one world or state of being to the next, Oracle says. Spirit wants you to face what scares you and be willing to lose it all.

The moment you muster the courage to embrace this phase of initiation, a new way of being, security, depth, and meaning will rush through you.

Engaging in a heartfelt conversation could be the smallest step in crossing that threshold. If you feel like you’re not being heard by your partner, here are some tips to help you break it to your partner gently:

1. Choose the right time: It’s important to choose a time when your partner is receptive to communication. Avoid bringing up important issues when your partner is distracted or stressed.
2. Be clear and direct: Communicate your message clearly and directly. Avoid beating around the bush or using indirect language, as this can lead to misunderstandings.
3. Listen actively: Communication is a two-way street, so it’s important to listen actively to your partner’s perspective. This means listening without judgment and trying to understand their point of view.
4. Use “I” statements: Instead of blaming or accusing your partner, use “I” statements to express your own feelings and needs. This can help avoid defensiveness and promote understanding.
5. Avoid criticism and defensiveness: Criticism and defensiveness can quickly escalate a conversation and prevent effective communication. Instead, focus on expressing your feelings and needs in a non-judgmental way.
6. Practice empathy: Try to see things from your partner’s perspective. You could be the one more hurt in this situation, but it doesn’t really matter who’s more victimized. All that matters is that you are still being kind to one another.
7. Seek support: If you’re struggling to communicate effectively with your partner, consider seeking support from a therapist or counselor. A neutral third party can help facilitate communication and provide strategies for improving communication.

Take baby steps, dear Virgo, because you are closer to that sacred space than you think.

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The Star (Major Arcana)

After the Tower has fallen and the light of dusk fades into the night, the Star is there to help you make your way through the dark.

You may have fallen deep in despair and cannot move forward.

The Hermit (Major Arcana)

You are assessing what happened to inform your place in the world.

Is your confidence broken, unable to forgive yourself? You may have withdrawn yourself out of fear of irreparable mistakes.

The Chariot (Major Arcana)

There is a definitive sense that propels your journey. The Chariot has no reins and is propelled by force of will.

Interrogate your goals and means of achieving them.

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