Aries daily love oracle | How to deal with a toxic partner
Welcome to your free online oracle reading. This is your Aries daily love oracle for 24 Jun 2020, Sun, Moon or Rising Sign. Although created for this date, it is noteworthy to also consider that time is fluid, and you may pick up inspirational spiritual messages from this oracle reading, because it is exactly what you need to hear today. Please take what resonates, leave what doesn’t. If it doesn’t resonate at all, it’s okay. Maybe tomorrow’s message is the one for you.
I base my readings from physically shuffled jump cards, while being surrounded by the 528 Hz Solfeggio frequency, consequently for love messages to raise vibration frequencies.
Two (2) drawn tarot cards from the Shadowscapes deck are the current energies. While interchangeable, we start off with your current energy (left). The one on the right is the energy of the person you’re dealing with: it may be your partner, the person on your mind, the person you’re eyeing to date, or the person who might be coming towards you. Next is the Oracle guidance.
I encourage you to allow the cards speak to you too. My interpretation is not the right and only way to read it. Sometimes the answers come to you just through your openness. So, let’s begin!
You are feeling fearful to be left out today, dear Aries. The Devil dances his hooves in a merry, mocking rhythm, joyous over your vibrations that appear to be off-center. A part of you operates in a co-dependent vibe–fearing loss, or feeling addicted with your partner. It also feels like there is a lack of trust (maybe towards your partner), or feeling jealous over someone surrounding him/her. It could also be feeling insecure, or in deep pain over a cold-hearted remark made by your partner.
The energy of the person you’re dealing with is the Queen of Swords, reversed. Queens give the energy of satisfaction, experienced and receptive. The reversal can simply mean she’s acting otherwise, and with the Swords energy, she could be unknowingly hurting you with her words. This is the Queen, but not necessarily a female figure. This is your partner’s energy. I can hear “schadenfreude”–this is a German word which means taking pleasure out of another person’s misery.
Are you in a co-dependent or toxic relationship? There are many signs of being in a toxic relationship, but one would be (which I can feel in this reading), is when you feel like your feelings are invalidated, or when you have been told that you are seeing/creating something out of nothing (i.e., “you are creating ghosts in your head”, “you made that up”), even if those “ghosts” or “made up thoughts” truly feel so real to you. Toxic relationships are pretty sensitive and I can write forever about it, but for today’s reading I would like to leave you with what the Devil card wants us to pay close attention to: the Devil entraps only those who are willing.
I am guided to pull 5 cards for your Oracle, and was guided to give a full Oracle reading for your situation. I hope this helps.
1. Situation – Regret
Think of the past as the now that has already been created. You have the power to un-create the past. And it lies with your awareness of the situation. Do not judge yourself in getting into this kind of situation. Accept that you cannot change it, but know that you have the power to liberate yourself.
2. Expectations – Love
Being in a toxic situation is a mind game which does not root from the other person, but from your own perspective or mindset. This is a reminder that you are love, and you need not expect it from other people. It comes first from your own heart space. If your heart chakra is balanced, your own fears of validation from other people will start to fade. And you won’t be sticking around a relationship that allows you to operate in a non-receiving way. This is also a reminder that love is a healing energy. Give it to yourself so you can get that courage to move past it. Love does not mean hating your partner. You can still offer them love by letting go.
3. Hidden influences – Worry
Are you worrying that you will lose everything if you step out of this? This card reminds you that it is safe. Worry is a wasted emotion, because it gives you the illusion of control. It also destroys your hope, and faith in yourself that yes, you are enough. You are not missing out on something by moving out. What you will be missing out is the magic that’s out there because you are choosing to stay.
4. Advice – Envy
Your obstacles are your own choice. Do not look at other’s lives hoping you can have it too, because it sets you up for confusion, and it allows you to brush your own troubles off. Their soul path is theirs, and yours is uniquely your own journey. This card tells you to accept your own path, regardless of how rocky it is. Once you own it, it is in this lifetime that your soul will be out of the Devil’s shackles.
5. Outcome – Surrender
Surrender the illusion that you have control over another’s life choices. We cannot change people–they have their own path to tread. You can’t undo staying with a toxic person, but you can do your part to walk away. Surrender to the divine their change of heart, but do your part by self-care. You don’t have to deal with it. You don’t have to say something to make it right. What makes it right is letting go and letting them be. Flip your hair and turn your back!
Feel lighter in 5 minutes
This is a visualization practice to help you connect with your loving heart. You may read it first and practice it after.
Come into a comfortable seat and place your hands on your heart space. Just connect with it as you close your eyes, feel its energy for as long as you want. When you feel like you have connected enough, start to envision a hot-air balloon being loaded up with all the stuff that weighs you down, and let them ride away with the balloon. Say your last goodbye and breathe deeply. As you inhale, imagine a white light passing through your heart space. Do it repeatedly until you feel enough. Open your eyes and thank your spirit guides. You are on your way, you are getting there, and again, you are enough.
If you are having a hard time to memorize, please don’t be hard on yourself. It’s okay. It can be as simple as placing your hands on your chest, then imagine the hot air balloon with your burdens being whisked away by the wind. Whisk it away by your breath, connect with your heart, and do it for as long as you want.
Sending you a virtual hug, dear Aries! Hoping to see you tomorrow!
A READING BY A | 24 Jun 2020
Does this reading resonate with you? Is it reversed? Let me know in the comments!